Tuesday, August 12, 2008

156 comments:

Pablo said...

Oh, Monty... big, big hugs to your family from mine.

Jan's Funny Farm said...

Oh, what a sad photo. We cry for you, knowing you miss your little Sprout. (That's how we still think of her.)

Hugs to all of your family from all of us.

Chairman Mao said...

Precious Monty Q and family -- thank you so much for the coffee stirrers. MaoMao enjoys them so much. That was so sweet and thoughtful of you.

We, the Ballicus Family, are sending you heart fulls of love at this heartbreaking time. We are crying for you, and we are praying for you. Please know we are here for you and how much we care.

Love,

The Ballicai and the Ballicus Beans.

The Meezers said...

oh Monty, our hearts are still breaking for all of you. We are sending out lots of love and hugs.

cyclone cats! said...

Monty,
that made our Mom leaky eyed again.

Your family is still in our thoughts.

Much love to all of you from us here in Iowa.

SophieKitty said...

Oh Monty and family, we think of you every day. We pray you find strength in this time of weakness and peace in this time of turmoil.

Purrs.

HotMBC said...

Oh Monty and Tracey and everyone... we're just sending you the biggest hugs and prayers that we can.

*hugs*
Robyn and the Hotties

Ruis said...

From overseas our thoughts and love are with you!

Many (((hugs)))
Ruis, the Kattenpraat's kitties & staff

Boy said...

I'm still puwwing and puwwing for you and your famiwy Monty! It is heartbreaking indeed, but I hope that mine hugs and purrs might make you feel a little better!

Lux said...

Oh, my friend, I'm sending you lots of love and purrs right this minute.

Honey P. Sunshine said...

oh, monty, she is up there watching out fur yoo

Cat-a-holic, Laila and Minchie said...

Oh Monty, we know how much you and your family miss little Sprout. You are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts are breaking for you all.

(((HUGS))) and purrs dear ones.

Laila, Minchie and Mom Peggy

*tears*

The Devil Dog said...

Oh Monty, we just don't know what to say. We love you all.

Roxy, Mom & Lucky

Millie said...

Monty,

Mom and I are sending you hugs and purrs.. We will be there on Thursday...

Furkidsmom said...

Our eyes are leaking...that's such a sad picture.

Purraying and Purring for you at this tragic time.

Sniffie and the Florida Furkids

The Cat Realm said...

This is the saddest picture, we started all crying again...
Our thoughts and purrs are with you!
The Cat Realm

Sweet Praline said...

Oh, Monty . . . mom has started with the leaky eyes again. We are sending very special purrs and prayers to your family.

Zippy, Sadie and Speedy said...

Oh Monty, we are sending you and your fambly lots of hugs. That piksher made mom leaky again...We are purraying that God gives you comfort.

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Calvin said...

Sending purrs to your family during this terribly sad time. Praying for strength and comfort.

jenianddean said...

Monty - we are sending you and your family our strongest purrs and prayers. My mom's eyes just keep leaking for your tiny angel. Please know we are all here for you and continue to pray for strength and comfort for you and your family.

-The McKitten-Cats
(and their mom and dad)

Kavan said...

That is just heart breaking.

Hugs, thoughts and purrs.

Kavan and Tara

Kimo and Sabi said...

Although it's difficult today
to see beyond the sorrow,
May looking back in memory
help comfort you tomorrow.

Purrrs, kissies, hugs, headbutts, tissue, luvs, snuggles, prayers, peace.

One-Eyed Jack said...

Purrs, and sandpaper kisses from us, and our mommy sends hugs.

Jack and Persephone

Gandalf and Grayson said...

Parker said...

Oh Monty...
We wish that we could give you and your family real live hugs. We have cried and cried for your loss. Please know how much you are loved and thought about.

Lilly Lu, Iris and Maxwell Mufsa Millon said...

monty we are so sad for you and your family. my mama eyes are leaking


Lilly Lu iris and Maxie

Felix, Garfield & Jawsy said...

We are so so sorry Monty Q, our eyes are leaking again. Many many Hugs and Love across the ocean for U and family. We wish we could do more.
Headnudgies and comfort purrs to all

Alexi said...

We have leaky eyes now. Please know we are purring, praying, and thinking of you.

Alexi, the rest of the Krasota Castle kitties, and the Castle beans.

goldenshade said...

Monty, such a good boy.

We feel your sadness and are sending you all some comforting purrs.

The PM's eyes are leaking when she thought they couldn't leak anymore.

Purrs and gentle {{hugs}}

~Goldie and Shade

Poppy Q said...

Monty and Tracey you have my mums eyes leak another big puddle.

We wish we could take your pain away.

Thinking of you, and all your family and friends.

Poppy and Julie Q

Junior said...

Oh Monty and family.....we are sending you lots of purrs still.

Junior, Orion and Meowm

The Furry Kids said...

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Artsy Catsy said...

Oh Monty, we just want to hold you and cuddle you. Your whole family is in our every thought and prayer.

Rocky, Mom Sharolyn,
& all of us at Artsy Catsy

Emma's Kat said...

Love and hugs sent your way.

::wipes tears::

The Crew said...

Everyone is thinking about you & your family.

DEBRA said...

Monty:

{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}for your family. You are all in our thoughts and purrayers...

Abby
Boo
Ping
Jinx
Gracie
and Mom Debra

Kellykat said...

Monty we are so sad that this tragedy had to happen to such a wonderful family. We love you and hope you can find some peace.
-Stryder, Scotchy, Sugar & Kelly

Daisy said...

Monty and family, I hope you can feel all the love and compassion that we are sending to you across the miles, and find a small bit of comfort from it.

The Taylor CatSSSSS said...

Monty, please know that a piece of all of our hearts is with you. The loss of our Sprout is just a tradegy. There are no other words.

Princess AngelCake said...

Oh Monty,sending lots of comforting purrs to you from England xxx

Samantha and Mr. Tigger said...

Monty & Family we are purrring and purraying peace and strength to your family during this time! (((((((((((((hugs from our house to yours)))))))))),
Your FL furiends,

Angus Mhor said...

I know you're purring your best to comfort your mom and dad and the Sticky Kids, Monty. I send you all my best purrs and many prayers. Please know that my mom and I think of you often every day and lift up prayers for your comfort and peace. We're here for the long haul.

Sabrina, Sam and Simon said...

Ohhh Monty, that made us and our momma cry, because we know how sad and totally heartbroken you and your beans are, and how sad us and all of your other friends in the CB are too. We are sending you all the love and hugs that we have ...
Love, purrs and headbutts,
Sabrina, Sam and Simon

Princess said...

We are so sad and sorry
This is such a crushing blow.
WE can only be comforted that sweet Violette is safe in the arms of God and she is with her family that has gone before her

Just know that we are here and always by your side during this very hard time. You are loved and I am praying for you


(((hugs)))

Marian said...

Monty - C.L. has been talking to everybody she knows about Sprout. Then she has to explain about how us cats have a blog and other cats have blogs and we get to meet cats from all over the world. Some people understand and others don't, but everyone is concerned and heartbroken about your wonderful Sprout. And, everyone sends their thoughts and prayers your way to you and your family. May God bless you all and comfort you in the days ahead.
:o) Thomas, Phoebe and Trixie

Anita said...

Only I want send you a big, big hug.

Our heart are with you.

Love and purrrrs.

Derby said...

Monty you look like you are missing your little Sprout! Hugs to all of you.

Eric and Flynn said...

Monty that is such a sad photo. It has made our eyes leak again. We send you and your family (((hugs))) and purrs and hope they help to give you strength to cope with the days ahead.

Texas said...

What a sad sad photo, Monty. My eyes and mombean's eyes are terribly leaky.

Moki said...

So very, very sad...we are praying for you.

Lisa said...

*tears* here too - Monty looks so sad wondering where his little Sprout is. Y'all have been very much on my mind and in my heart this week. I know more difficult days are ahead as you finish saying goodbye.

Chairman Mao said...

we Ballicai wanted to come give you bunches of gentle snuggles and hugs -- we're thinkin about you and we love you. Remembur we are here for you, and you are in our purrs efurry day.

Love always,

MaoMao, the Ballicai, and the Ballicus Beans.

Marilyn MonREOW said...

Oh Monty, my tears are flowing. I'm sending worlds of hugs and love to your family. How much all of you must miss your precious little angel. Please know that we, your friends, are here for you, and we care.

Much love always and warmest purrs from Marilyn.

neoryan08 said...

Be strong. im very sure little sprout wont wanted the ending like this..

Katie and Da Katz said...

How are you doing? Duz Monty wonder where his little sister is?

Have they given you any info why her heart gave out? Mawmee wonders if somepin else coulds have been goin on...

Gran Mawmee said dat Mawmee fell like dat frum a high chair and hitted da corner of a table... And she gotted unconscious too. Dey tooks Mawmee to hospital. Gran Mawmee dont know how Mawmee was okay.

we luvs you and is purrin fur you.
Katie Too

Jennifer O. said...

Sweet friends, our hearts go out to you all... You are not alone in this awful sadness. We are all grieving with you...

Moki said...

Hi Monty Q,

I just wanted to let you know that the squillion auction Beau and I put together for you raised $145.00We will be transfering the funds to Mom Robyn's account, and she will be distrubuting them to you and Millie.

Derby actually played a huge role in this auction as well, being as she was the one who donated the squillions we auctioned off for you.

While I am at a loss of words to express my feelings, I hope our actions says what words cannot.

Lot's of love and prayers,
Moki and Family

Camie's Kitties said...

Monty, we are sending you (((HUGS))). We are thinking of you and your family and purring for all of you. We love you.

Tiki, Tavi, Cody, Camie and Miss Jade

The Lee County Clowder said...

Sending mournfull purrrrss and gentle headbutts to all.

ppuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Aoise said...

Oh, what a sad, sad photo. Such emptiness, such pain. Me and my miewmie think of you every day and we will nefer forget sprout. Miewmie prays for you all. We send our love and great big hugs.

Mickey said...

Oh Monty!
There are no words to express my sadness for you and your family.
(((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

Purrs & Headbutts,Mickey & family

Sheri said...

I have been asking everyone to pray for you. I pray that I could take some of your pain away. I am holding my little one tighter these days.

((((((HUGS))))))) from Texas


Sheri

ML said...

O, Monty, you's missing yours baby Sprout.
We's misses her, too.
Hugs and love to you and yours fambly.
KC

The Island Cats said...

Our thoughts and prayers are with with you during this sad time.

Wally, Ernie & Zoey

Sammawow said...

Such a sad picture. Hugs to all of you and know that our thoughts, prayers and purrs are with you.

Mom Teri, China Cat & Willow

Finnegan & Buddy said...

((((((Monty & Fambly)))))

We hope you can feel our love, wishes & purrayers for peace for all of you.

Love Finny Buddy Jasmine & mom

Forty Paws said...

What a sad photo. Tons of hugs and purrs to you and your family.

Luf, Us and Maw

PB 'n J said...

Oh Monty - you've made Mommy go all leaky again. Our hearts are still breaking for you and your family. We're sending all of our Love and Purrs your way.

The Meezers said...

{{{{HUGS}}}} we is holding all of you in our hearts.

Rossetti and Kirara said...

Dear Monty and Family,

We wish we could come over and give you hugs and purrs and headbutts in real lifes, but we're just too far away. Know that we all are thinking of ya'll and purrayin for ya'll from down here in the Lone Star state. Momma said we could wear violet over the weekend in Violette's honor. Our hearts are with you!!
We purray that your grief and pain will be lifted soon, or at least made more bearable.

May you all find the strength needed this weekend to help you say goodbye for now...

luv,

Rossetti and Kirara (and Momma Lindy too)

The Kiaton Empire

The Fluffy Tribe said...

we don't know what to say, our hearts are breaking for your family. ~The FLuffy TRibe and 'beans

Max said...

Dooood...

:~(

mog said...

That photo brought tears to my eyes, I know there's a big hole in your heart. Our purrs and prayers are with you.
{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}

Mog and kitties

The Taylor CatSSSSS said...

Remembering with love......sending purrs and snuggles.............our thoughts and prayers are with you.

DaisyMae Maus said...

That is the saddest photo we've seen in a really long time. You have our deepest sympathies.

We hope that you got the flowers that we sent ... We thought that violets spoke volumes.

DMM

Evergreen loves Kilroy said...

Hi Monty... we've never been to your blog before but would like to offer our condolences and hugs in light of this tragedy.

Jan's Funny Farm said...

We're glad Millie' mom Lynne is there with you today and ML will be there tomorrow. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bogdan, the editor said...

Monty. I'm so sorry. Purrs to you and your family. I had my Investor send off fabric to you. If you don't get it in time, I'll bite her. You just say the word! Anything for you, buddy.
The Investor has been all leaky. The Cat Blogosphere loves you. You have all of our support through this rough time. Big hugs, man. -B

michico*Adan said...

Sending my biggest hugs and purr here to you, Monty...

Samantha and Mr. Tigger said...

Monty and Mom, we are purrring a lot of love your way to you and all your family! ((((((((((((((hugs from our house to yours))))))))))),
Your FL furiends,

Zoey and the furballs (the Zoo Crew) said...

That is so sad. My human is leaking.

The Meezers said...

we're comimg back to leave you more love and hugs.
{{{{HUGS}}}}

http://seriouslyamused.blogspot.com/ said...

Monty, I'm so sorry for your loss. A big hug to you and your family.

j9marshall said...

My prayers and thoughts are with you. "To live in the hearts of those you love is not to die".

Cats~Goats~Quotes said...

Our dear Monty and family..
We are heart broken. Sending you many, many hugs and raising your names in prayer.
((((Hugs)))
~ The Bunch and The Mom Bobbie

Diane G. said...

Dear Monty,

You and your family are in our hearts and prayers.

Lucinda, Carmela, and Moe - Chicats

Smeagol and Strider (Mystery and Gizmo too!) said...

We are sendin' you all of our love and purrs and hugs.

Jimmy Joe said...

Monty and Mom-Tracey and your whole family--
We are so sorrowful and heartbroken over your terrible loss of sweet baby Violette. We will be thinking of you all and honoring her memory tomorrow. May you find some peace in the prayers of compassion and sympathy sent your way by us all--
Always your buddies,
Jimmy Joe, Coco, and Anne

The Cat Realm said...

((((((((HUG)))))))))) and another (((((((((((HUG)))))))))) and lots of purrs. Thinking of you.
The Cat Realm

Lux said...

Just stopping by to give your family more hugs {{{{hugs}}}}

Our thoughts are with you.

Mr. Chen and Ollie said...

Monty, we just realized that Mommy wrote something from her account and not ours. We don't want you to think we're not thinking of you because we are purring and praying and sending you and your whole family all of our love dear friend.... Extra big hugs and headbutts to you!
Purrs,
Mr. Chen & Ollie

Chairman Mao said...

Leaving you more hugs and hugs and hugs and hugs and worlds and worlds of love...

Team Tabby said...

We continue to purr and pray for you at this sad time. Our thoughts are with you all.

Mindy & Moe

Karen Jo said...

That is such a sad picture. I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. I am just so very sorry. I have a violet cat pin that I will be wearing today.

Camie's Kitties said...

We are sending extra hugs and purrs to you today. We love you.

Tiki, Tavi, Cody, Camie and Miss Jade

MISS PEACH ~(^.^)~ said...

Monty Q, I am wearing a special Violette French ribbon around my neck today....just to let you know how much I care and how very sad I am for all of your precious family.
Soft soft hugs to you specially....

Eric and Flynn said...

We have come with love and (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
to help give you strength today. We wish we could hug you in reality. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Love from Jackie, Ivor, Eric and Flynn

Parker said...

Sending all our our love and comfort to you today.
We will be there with you in spirit.
xoxoxoxoxox

Name: Mr. Hendrix said...

We are with you in our hearts and thoughts today. We wish we could hug you in person.

Anything, anything, anything you need. Just let us know. Many purrs and prayers to your family.

Sabrina, Sam and Simon said...

Monty Q and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers on this sad, sad day. (((((HUGS))))) to all of you ...
Sabrina, Sam, Simon and Momma Jan

Wrigley & Cobalt said...

We have been thinking about your family so much these past few days. Big hugs and purrs to all of you.

Wrigley & Cobalt

Astrid, Kashim and Othello said...

our thoughts are with you right now.
We are saying our purrayers and do not want to say goodbye to Sprout but we say: Until we meet again, little angel!

sending hugs and comforting thoughts
(((hugs)))(((hugs)))(((hugs)))(((hugs)))
Kashim, Othello, Salome
(((hugs)))
Momma Astrid

Anonymous said...

Our family sends our deepest condolences to your family. Although you do not know us, your story has touched our hearts and we trust God will give you strength at this time.

Cat-a-holic, Laila and Minchie said...

((((HUGS))) to all of you from all of us.

Laila and Minchie and Mom Peggy

Derby said...

(((((((HUGS))))))

The Taylor CatSSSSS said...

(((((HUGSSSSS)))))

The Taylor CatSSSSS said...

(((((HUGSSSSS)))))

Sheri said...

Praying for your family today. I am so very sorry.

Castle said...

thinking of you today...and wearing some violet.
many hugs from us in london x

Rocky, Angie & S'more said...

Words escape us...please know that we are thinking of you and that your family is in our prayers.

Love,
Rocky, Angie, S'more & our Mommy Karen xoxo

The Meezers said...

you are wrapped in our arms and held in our hearts on this difficult day.

Jan's Funny Farm said...

Your family has been in our thoughts all day. We know your sorrow runs deep and there are no words to ease the pain.

{{{{{Hugs}}}}}

Jan & Crystal, Cotton, Merci, Cyndi, Percy, Cameron, Buddy, Rusty and Samaritan

Daisy said...

You are in our thoughts and hearts on this, saddest of days. Many strong hugs to you.

jenianddean said...

You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

-The McKitten-Cats
(and their mom and dad)

Sammawow said...

You are in our thoughts and prayers on this sad day.

(((((hugs to all)))))

Purrrrrrrrs, China Cat & Willow
and Mom Teri

Mickey said...

God bless you and your family Tracey. May the collective thoughts and Purrs of all the kitties sustain you.
Sprout will always be in our hearts.
(((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

Purrs Mickey,Georgia & Tillie

The Cat Realm said...

On this sad sad day when you lay Violette to her final rest we are all thinking of you, sending our love and purrs and big ((((HUGS))), just hoping it might ease the pain just the tiniest bit.
Lots of love for you and your whole family from all of us.

Chesney Cats said...

You are in our hearts & our prayers.
May God give you comfort & strength to get through the saddest of times.

Hugs & Purrs,
ChesneyCats & Mama Rhonda

Parker said...

Just sending another hug to your family.
(((((((((((HUG))))))))))

Moki said...

Today we hold you in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers...(((hugs)))

Tiger Lily said...

Oh Monty, we wish we could be there to {hug} you in person.

prrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrs and
{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} and
gentle tail wags,
Jemima, Zeke, Sushi, Tiger Lily and Ruckus

Chairman Mao said...

(((((((((hugs)))))))) from all of us Ballicai -- you are in our hearts and our purrs and our prayers.

Pumpkin said...

Hugs 'n purrs frum Hah-why-eee. We're keeping yu and yore fambly in our thawts and harts at this sad time.

the 4 Bs said...

we are very sorry for your loss. we're sending you our licks and hugs from the 4Bs and our mom, peg.

sad sad woofs.

henny & marlene said...

On this most difficult day of your life, we are sending warm and big {{{{HUGS}}}} and LOVE to you all.

Henny & Marlene
(Ruis's staff)

Findlay Furs said...

We have checked in on you many times but never left a comment... we are so furry sad that you lost your 'sprout'. We cry with the rest of your blog admirers and are sending purrs of comfort to you and your family.

Rossetti and Kirara said...

We've been thinking about ya'll all day and just wanted to stop by and check on ya'll and send you lots of HUGS because we know ya'll need them this weekend...

We're still purring and purrayin for ya'll

luv,

Rossetti and Kirara
and Momma too

Victor Tabbycat said...

Hang in there, Monty! Yur beans need lotsa fur and purr therapy an yur just the tabby mancat to provide it.
Still more hugs from all of us to all of you,
~Victor, Tabbymom Jen, Sean, Ryan, and even Nina (the new introoder - Mom maded me add her)

Tenkiller Airedales said...

Apache's hooman mommy here. Just wanted to say that we are so very sorry for your loss. There are so many people praying for all of you. There really isn't anything that any of us can say or do to make this better for you except our prayers. It is through our prayers that you will feel the presence of God and his sustaining power and strength for you during this time. I would hope that you would know that during this time.... you can reach out to any and all of us and we will have the listening ear and caring heart. We are all crying with you and for you. We all really DO care. Please don't stop blogging .... we need you as much as you need us right now. We do want to know how you feel, and you can consider yourself "hugged" every day from all of us. That is the power of love.... you and your family are loved by all of us. Make your needs KNOWN.... WE NEED to know and share with you. I feel that I speak for all of Monty's friends.... Your baby is now with Jesus. You'll see her again one day. Keeping you in my own personal prayers, Rev. Sherry Scara aka Apache's hooman.

The Cat Realm said...

Just here to give you a big (((((((HUG))))))). We are thinking of you and sending love and purrs!
The Cat Realm

The Taylor CatSSSSS said...

WE JUST HAD TO COME BY AND GIVE YOU SOME MORE HUGS!

(((((HUGSSSSS)))))

Name: Mr. Hendrix said...

we love you all. big hugs to you today and always.

Tybalt said...

Oh, Monty and family. I can't begin to tell you how heartbroken we are for you. That picture just brings it all home again . . . the loss of your sweet Sprout. Believe me, we are all purring and praying for you. I hope you find comfort and peace soon.

Much love. <3

Whicky wuudler said...

Big hugs, love and rumbly purrs to you all.

Whicky wuudler said...

Big hugs, love and rumbly purrs to you all.

Luna said...

We are so sorry and sad !
You and your family are in our thoughts and our prayers.

purrs and hugs from all of us!!!

Sunny's Mommy said...

Thinking of all of you and sending more {{hugs}} today. I wish it could take away some of your pain.

Chairman Mao said...

We Ballicai just came by to give you more hugs and to tell you we love you and are thinking about you!

(((((((((((((((huggies))))))))))))))

mum of critters said...

it's just not right
i am sorry for the aches you are facing - my heart and prayers are with you and i don't even know you
love
carir ann

Oliver said...

Purrrrs and purrrayers... from my fambly to yores.

Parker said...

Just came by to send you some love...

Millie said...

I am sending you all smoochies.

I miss you all already

Ruis said...

Monty and family, came here to give you extra ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))).

Our thoughts and love are with you.
~Ruis & family

Camie's Kitties said...

We are thinking about all of you and sending you purrs and (((hugs))).

Tiki, Tavi, Cody, Camie and Miss Jade

HotMBC said...

We stopped in to give headbumpies and send lots of love. Fanks for taking good care of Mom when she was visiting, Monty.

*huuuuuuuuuugs*
the Hotties

Finnegan & Buddy said...

(((Hugs))) Thinking of you all.

Love Finny Buddy Jasmine & Mom

Southbay Girl said...

We wanted to send our thoughts, prayers and hugs to your entire family during this very difficult time!

Penny, Velcro, Kodak, Winton, 3 Perf and Blossom

Margaret Cloud said...

I feel for you, I to am at a loss for my Melody, I grieve with you.

Parker said...

I just wanted to stop in and send you some hugs...
(((((HUGS)))))
And a smooch too...

Kristina said...
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Cecil the Cougar: said...

Monty Q & family: I haven't been around the cat blogosphere lately. I just heard the news and had to drop by. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that I can say to make it any better, but Mommie and I are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.

SophieKitty said...

Just wanted to drop by and let you know we are thinking of you.

The Taylor CatSSSSS said...

We wanted to stop by and tell you that we are thinking of you!

Love, All the TaylorSSSSS

Zippy, Sadie and Speedy said...

We just stopped by to leave more love and a big ((((hug))))...

Diamond said...

We didn't know about your grief and the terrible events. We looked at all her lovely photos. No-one can take away your precious memories of her.